Society says as young people we are lazy, naive, rebellious, and followers not leaders. The world does not expect much from us as young people and that has transferred over to the church. We are told we need to follow other's examples not be the examples. The bible has very different things to say, and I'm hoping as a young christian myself at 22 years old I can help other young Christians strive to be leaders not followers, to be servants not those who are served, to find worth in God's eyes not the world's eyes. 1 Timothy 4: 12 says, "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity."
About me: My name is Caleb I am 22 years old and I recently graduated from Pepperdine University. I am not a young person who has been rejected by society so I am lashing out, quite the opposite. I found myself in college to be a part of the world, I drank, I partied, I went on spring break trips to Mexico, I was in a fraternity, I even modeled professionally in LA for a while. What I realized is that some where along the way I had succumbed to the World's expectations of what a college student should be and put God on the back burner. My mind set was that I had time to be a good Christian and an example when I was older, I realize now that there's no better time to serve God and be an example then the now. I have rededicated my life to Christ and helping young people do the same. I am a pseudo college intern at my church and can't wait to see the way God will challenge me.
Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
The problem sometimes with young Christians when it comes to dating and well a lot of things is we blame society. Christian women say I dress this way because society says that it is pretty or attractive. Christian men say I date girls who dress this way because society has trained me to find that attractive. Then both Christian men and women blame the other for their low standards and for lowering their own standards to be attractive to the opposite sex. It’s an ongoing blame game and endless circle of basically making excuses for why we follow the world’s version of dating. Then it occurred to me, there seems to be a common theme for all this. We are putting too much emphasis and care in making ourselves attractive for each other and not enough emphasis or care in making ourselves attractive for God. If we make ourselves attractive for God then there is no blaming society, because God doesn’t revolve around what society thinks is attractive. So this what I suggest, focus on becoming as beautiful as you can in God’s eyes and then you will attract a REAL Christian man or woman who will be attracted to you first and foremost because of your soul.