Society says as young people we are lazy, naive, rebellious, and followers not leaders. The world does not expect much from us as young people and that has transferred over to the church. We are told we need to follow other's examples not be the examples. The bible has very different things to say, and I'm hoping as a young christian myself at 22 years old I can help other young Christians strive to be leaders not followers, to be servants not those who are served, to find worth in God's eyes not the world's eyes. 1 Timothy 4: 12 says, "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity."
About me: My name is Caleb I am 22 years old and I recently graduated from Pepperdine University. I am not a young person who has been rejected by society so I am lashing out, quite the opposite. I found myself in college to be a part of the world, I drank, I partied, I went on spring break trips to Mexico, I was in a fraternity, I even modeled professionally in LA for a while. What I realized is that some where along the way I had succumbed to the World's expectations of what a college student should be and put God on the back burner. My mind set was that I had time to be a good Christian and an example when I was older, I realize now that there's no better time to serve God and be an example then the now. I have rededicated my life to Christ and helping young people do the same. I am a pseudo college intern at my church and can't wait to see the way God will challenge me.
Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor
Tonight in our College class at church, which has been called “Finding our second love” a class on what Christian dating looks like, a point was brought up I really wanted to touch on. Someone brought up the point that when we first start dating someone, they are going to be on their best behavior, hiding flaws, trying hard etc. So if there is something we don’t like about them now, that will only get worse if we marry them. Just remember in marriage you will get the worst of someone, you will get all of them and there isn’t that facade any longer. You are marrying that person’s flaws, so if there is something that bugs you now, or is compromising to your beliefs or doesn’t match up with want you want in a spouse, BREAK IT OFF! The whole idea of marriage shouldn’t be about settling so you don’t end up lonely, it should be that a person has so many of the qualities a spouse should possess and you connect on every single level so much you cannot stand being around them any longer without being one in body and in spirit. So don’t settle for less, wait for God to give you that person who is complete in him without you and without needing to change.